So many different thoughts and emotions are in my head today. This morning we had to deal with my daughter's "orange card" disobedience issues from school yesterday. I am just so drained with it all. Some days I think I'd rather just have my Lynn turn back into an infant and start over again with her. At what point are we not responsible for her actions? I mean, she makes her own decisions, but to a point it always reflects back on us as her parents. I just get so discouraged. She is soooo strong willed and head strong and argumentative (& has a bunch of positive traits as well; I have not lost sight of those :) that sometimes I just want to send her to her room and run out of the house screaming. Wouldn't that be a sight for the neighbors? :)

I went to Motherhood Maternity yesterday, with the goal of finding a bathing suit for our beach trip in a few weeks, and perused the store for other "good finds." Not sure if it was quite a "good find" but I bought a blue shirt that I'll wear to church tomorrow, to remember my son. I wanted one of those side cinch maternity shirts with Nathan but never bought one, so I bought one yesterday and will wear it tomorrow. It shows my belly as it hugs my bump. Having this little one inside eases my pain a bit. She/he will never replace who Nathan would have been, but the hope she represents for our future and moving on is a sweet gift. Another sweet gift... feeling her move last night. I actually felt baby for the first time last Friday when I was at a conference all day, but laying in bed last night I actually felt her/him move more. Little flutters, the gentlest of movements, but baby is there. Bringing tears to my eyes, as I remembered laying in bed a year ago last night having not felt baby Nathan move that day, the contrast was a sharp one.
Tomorrow is the actual date, the 24th. Hubby wants to make a nice dinner (or after-church meal) tomorrow and not celebrate the loss, but the life, of Nathan. I think we'll go ahead and do that, but I think the sentimental side of me wants to also get balloons and "send them to heaven." I will give Lynn the time today to draw a picture or write a message to Nathan, as will I, and then we'll tie them to our balloons tomorrow and release them. In a way I feel kind of helpless as to what to do. His memory is in my heart and I know that's where he'll have to stay until we're reunited again one day in heaven. Ah, I miss you little guy, we miss you.
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Our kids' school gives "pink slips." And I hear ya... after a certain point, we can only be their teachers, and they're going to end up making mistakes (and hopefully learning from them!) It's way harder, I think, to be the parent of a child than the parent of a baby... babies are sooo easy... :)
And for me, it will always be the actual date. April 1 - April Fool's! Ha. I wish.
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